There is a process – a framework – to manifesting everything you want in your life. It isn’t rocket science. There is actually a science to prove it works. The best place to start? Ask yourself: What would you do if you knew you could not fail?
One of the first steps in the framework to manifest everything you want is to know what you want. And surprisingly, this is one of the hardest things to do. You would think it would be the easiest, but people don’t handle it the right way.
The worst offender is people wanting something because someone else has it. That is the ego telling you what you want and sadly, the ego is the biggest blocker of the law of attraction.
See someone driving a nice car and saying something like “ug – why do they get to drive a nice car and I don’t” is coming from a place of lack – not abundance – and that is one of the worst mindsets to have in life – much less a life you are trying to get abundance on.
Another offender – which is the one I want to talk about here – is the ‘it’s impossible’ mindset. They want to attract all these things – money, relationship, success, houses, cars, you name it – but they limit themselves to what they think they could do.
They really want to earn six figures, but they think based on their current state that that is impossible, so they say 60k instead. Still a stretch, but way easier to wrap the head around it.
I was doing some goal setting work with someone one time and they told me they want to earn 70k in real estate. I asked why not 700k (which is possible in real estate), and they said that is too big of a goal. 70k would be great.
Too big of a goal? That is the whole damn idea!!
If you are going to set goals, why not set them big? Why not dream as big as you can think? Because guess what – you are going to get what you think about. You are going to get what you are manifesting. Wouldn’t you hate to get to 70k and be like ‘shoulda gone for 700k’? Or would you rather hit 70k on the way to 700k and be like ‘awe yeah – one more milestone down’?
The choice is really ultimately up to you. Goal setting is something I cannot help you with. It has to be your goal – your dream – your desire. It cannot be for anyone else but you.
Here is the best way I tell people to start to ‘what do I want’ discussion with yourself:
What Would You Do If You Knew You Could Not Fail
If you knew that nothing could stop you, and that failure was impossible, what would you want? What would you be doing? If you had all the time, all the money, all the space in your life to put whatever you wanted into your life, what would that be? What would you have? Where would you live? What would you drive? What would your family look like? What would your travel look like?
Fill in all the space here. If there was no resistance – zero friction – who would you be? Write from that frame.
And think big!
I cannot stress this fact enough. When I first started on my Law of Attraction journey, I played it small. I played the who ‘let’s manifest a cup of coffee’ game. Which is great – I mean – I got it. But it feels a little letdown. It’s fun – but I should have asked for the whole coffee pot. Heck – how about the island with coffee beans growing on it?
You get the idea.
Don’t go small here. Manifest your life dreams means dreaming! Go big!
But start with the question of what would you do if you knew you could not fail. That will frame up the mindset of thinking big. No restrictions – who are you. Answer that – and watch your life unfold!
